Ice Queens & Bitchy Women Get the Guy!

There is an old saying nice guys finish last. Well, it also is the same of nice girls. When you are nice you get run right over by the bitchy people. So, it probably is true more times than not if you are nice and sweet you'll be home alone. You may have guys that like you but not the ones you want to like you.

Everyone always makes the same comment when they observe couples; "His girl was bitchy." What is bitchy? Someone who is demanding and who does not lower their standards. This characteristic is often seen as a strong and demanding. A person who seems to grab someone by the balls and squeezes them tight. It has been said that this quality is appealing to men. Perhaps,they will feel more comfortable to have a person raise their kids who are sure of them selves and able to handle life. Guys even seem to be afraid of his wife/girlfriend getting mad at them! If you are considered nice you can easily be pushed over and not handle life as easily. This sounds unfair and biased. But, there is a subtle truth that begs one to question how are nice people being passed up for Ice Queens?

So, nice people need to toughen up to compete with these Ice Queens. You don't have to but if you are single it might be wise to study this finding. What do you do that makes you tend to be single over this strong person? Do you forget to honor your standards? I bet the Ice Queen never lowers her standard. She probably raises them. This Ice Queen is probably moving into a twenty five million dollar Fifth Ave, New York Townhouse with her husband. This Ice Queen never calls a guy but lets him chase her. This Ice Queen demands the best and respect. R-E-S-P-E-C-T. The nice person does for others but forgets the guy needs to be the guy and do the guy dating things.

If a nice person can learn the most valuable trait an Ice Queen has love "thy self first" then their is hope. You might not have to be a bitch but you can start by putting yourself first and demand someone treat you like a Queen.